Top 10 Tips for Making Cats Love You as a Sitter

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Being a cat sitter isn’t just about feeding cats and cleaning litter trays (though those are important). It’s about building trust and forming a connection with each cat you care for. Cats can be independent, quirky, or downright fussy, so winning them over can take a bit of effort. But don’t worry, as someone who’s spent years caring for cats of all shapes and sizes, I’ve got you covered. Here are my top 10 tips for making cats absolutely adore you as their sitter.

1. Respect Their Space

Cats are big fans of personal boundaries. When you first meet a new kitty, let them come to you. Avoid staring (it can feel threatening) and crouch down to their level to seem less intimidating. Patience is key.

2. Learn Their Body Language

Understanding what a cat is trying to tell you makes all the difference. A swishing tail might mean they’re annoyed, while slow blinks are like little kisses. The more you can read their signals, the better you’ll get along.

3. Use Treats Wisely

Who doesn’t love a treat? Bringing a few tasty snacks can help break the ice. Always check with the owner first to make sure the treats are suitable for their cat, especially if they have dietary restrictions.

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4. Playtime is Everything

Cats need mental and physical stimulation, especially if they’re on their own while their owners are away. A good play session with their favourite toy (or a new one you bring along) can work wonders for bonding.

5. Speak Softly and Gently

Cats respond well to calm, soothing voices. Avoid loud or sudden noises, and try chatting to them in a soft tone. Even if they don’t understand your words, your voice will help them feel at ease.

6. Stick to Their Routine

Cats are creatures of habit, and nothing stresses them out more than a disrupted routine. Stick to the feeding and play schedules their owners have set, and make sure their environment stays just the way they like it.

7. Offer Affection on Their Terms

Some cats love a good cuddle, while others prefer a polite head scratch or no touch at all. Follow their lead and never force affection—it’s all about earning their trust.

8. Leave Their Favourite Spots Alone

Most cats have a safe space they retreat to when they need some alone time. Whether it’s a specific chair, a cosy bed, or under the sofa, respect their sanctuary and don’t disturb them there.

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9. Provide Updates for the Owners

Sending a quick photo and update to the owners isn’t just great for their peace of mind—it’s also an opportunity to show off the bond you’re building with their cat. Bonus points for catching their cat looking relaxed or playful!

10. Stay Calm and Confident

Cats can sense your energy. If you’re stressed or nervous, they might pick up on it. Stay calm, move slowly, and approach every interaction with confidence. Even the most cautious cats will warm up to a relaxed and steady presence.

My Tips

Building a bond with a cat takes time, patience, and a bit of know-how, but it’s incredibly rewarding when you see a once-shy cat start to trust you. Follow these tips, and you’ll soon have a reputation as the sitter that cats (and their owners) can’t get enough of!

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